Know what to organize
Start with your circumstances, including whether discussions are cooperative, uncertain or disputed. Add and tick your own tasks.
One thoughtful step at a time
Your next steps, in one plan.
Start with your situation. Explore the financial picture, practical arrangements, support options and professional contacts. Then download one personalized, non-legal planning report that brings it all together. Every step is optional and free.
100% free. No login or registration. Planning answers stay in your browser, with optional encrypted progress download. Nothing is uploaded to PlanMyDivorce.
A personal starting pointYour pace
Small steps. Less guesswork.
✓Make a list of important documents
✓Understand current household expenses
Estimate a future monthly budget
Prepare questions to ask a professional
There is no one-size-fits-all pathStart anywhere
Why PlanMyDivorce exists
A connected plan, not disconnected worksheets.
Tell us only what you choose to share, one stage at a time. We connect your situation, budget scenarios, unfinished tasks and support preferences into a report with practical questions to consider. The site cannot predict legal outcomes or fees.
See the money clearly
Compare a current household budget with a possible future one. Add optional lawyer, mediation, filing and moving-cost estimates.
Take away something useful
Download a full private planning report or a shorter discussion copy. Read carefully before sharing any personal information.
We help you plan, not file. This website doesn't submit court documents, decide legal entitlements or replace independent professional advice. Your circumstances and local rules matter.
The main experience
Create my plan ↗One guided journey. One useful planning report.
Six steps: your situation → finances → property and documents → practical arrangements → support and contacts → your personal summary. Skip what does not apply. Save an encrypted progress file if you need to return another day.
Your planning toolkit
Or use a standalone tool.
If you only need a budget, checklist, asset inventory, or contact list, use any tool independently. The guided Create My Plan journey is there when you want everything brought together.
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Create my checklist ↗Preparation checklist
Create a tailored list of practical tasks based on your stage and household circumstances.
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Build a budget ↗Future budget planner
Estimate income, everyday expenses and optional legal or mediation fees. Download your budget as a PDF.
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Organize finances ↗Assets & debts organizer
List the things you own and owe, with private estimates you can export for your records.
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Find legal contacts ↗Find a family-law lawyer
Search by location, access professional directories, and make a shortlist of contacts to take away as a PDF.
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Prepare my notes ↗Conversation planner
Explore safe, optional separation wording and download private notes. No account required.
Help beyond the paperwork
Guidance for the human side of separation.
Practical reading on handling change, supporting children and getting organized, alongside our free planning tools.
Conversation help
How to tell your spouse you want to separate
Thoughtful example wording and boundaries when it is safe to have a conversation.
Read guide ↗Understand your optionsAmicable vs contested divorce
What may change when the process is cooperative, disputed or complex.
Read guide ↗WellbeingCoping with divorce and separation, one day at a time
Ways to create breathing room, seek support and handle everyday pressures while life is changing.
Read guide ↗Private by design. Clear about our limits.
Every planning tool is free, with no login. Your financial entries are processed in your browser and are not uploaded to our website. There are currently no accounts, analytics or advertising tags on this website. Opening a third-party lawyer directory sends your search to that provider; downloadable worksheets stay on your device.
A more manageable process
How it works
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Start with your situation
Choose a guided plan, or open one standalone tool if that is all you need.
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Build a practical picture
Compare costs, check off tasks and decide which support and contacts may be helpful.
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Download a complete summary
Download a private report or a shorter discussion copy. This is not a legal agreement or a prediction of costs.
International planning
Explore official resources ↗Planning support wherever you live.
Start with tools that work without an account. The guided planner offers country-specific official starting points for Australia, the United States, the UK, Canada, New Zealand and Ireland, plus general planning mode for other countries. Legal procedures and advice always depend on the relevant jurisdiction.